Whatever tickles your pickle (2024)

Rodal

Banned

Seattle WA

Castellano (Chile)

  • Apr 14, 2016
  • #1

A coworker said this phrase to a doctor in our pod and it sounded inappropriate for the work environment.
However she contends this urban saying means the same as "whatever floats your boat".

I have my doubts. To me, whatever tickles your pickle is the same as saying "whatever melts your butter" while one is directed to males and the other is directed to women, both have the same sexual connotation that can be offensive to the opposite sex in a professional work environment.

Whatever floats your boat is the more politically correct way of saying this if you must say anything. Still not the type of language I would prefer to use in the workplace.

Am I wrong?

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    ain'ttranslationfun?

    Senior Member

    US English

    • Apr 14, 2016
    • #2

    I think "Whatever floats your boat." would be OK in most circumstances. (Besides, I think Seattle is pretty laid-back, isn't it?)

    Rodal

    Banned

    Seattle WA

    Castellano (Chile)

    • Apr 14, 2016
    • #3

    ain'ttranslationfun? said:

    I think "Whatever floats your boat." would be OK in most circumstances. (Besides, I think Seattle is pretty laid-back, isn't it?)

    Yes, I agree, however you do sense the sexual connotation of the expression "whatever tickles your pickle" and thus you'd prefer not to use it in a professional working environment. To me, this makes them substantially different.

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    ain'ttranslationfun?

    Senior Member

    US English

    • Apr 14, 2016
    • #4

    Yes, because you wouldn't be likely to say "Whatever tickles your pickle/melts your butter." to a woman or a man, respectively.

    Rodal

    Banned

    Seattle WA

    Castellano (Chile)

    • Apr 14, 2016
    • #5

    ain'ttranslationfun? said:

    Yes, because you wouldn't be likely to say "Whatever tickles your pickle/melts your butter." to a woman or a man, respectively.

    I agree; interesting enough, the coworker who said this was a female MA talking to a female doctor. I suppose it wouldn't be so inappropriate for women to speak male jargon amongst each other except for when there is a male present in the room. It is normally forbidden for men in Seattle to disrespect females in the same manner if the tables were turned. I needed to confirm if there was a sexual connotation in this expression and you have answered my question. Thank you aint'ttranslationfun.

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    You little ripper!

    Senior Member

    Australia

    Australian English

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #6

    I've never heard the expression (I live under a rock and only come out occasionally Whatever tickles your pickle (4)) but I notice that The Urban Dictionary doesn't give it a sexual connotation (if there is a sexual connotation to be had, The Urban Dictionary will generally have it).

    Urban Dictionary: whatever tickles your pickle
    whatever you want!

    Myridon

    Senior Member

    Texas

    English - US

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #7

    Some people don't realize that things have other meanings. Whatever melts your butter might be understood by someone as whatever type of bread you prefer with breakfast.
    That said, they should be informed in a nice way (through the HR department if possible) that some people might be offended even if they don't mean them to be offensive.

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    Parla

    Member Emeritus

    New York City

    English - US

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #8

    "Whatever floats your boat" is okay; it's informal, but so are many work environments. It would, of course, be addressed to co-workers, not to the company president.

    I agree that the other two expressions are inappropriate (just about anywhere, in my opinion).

    ewie

    Senior Member

    Manchester 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧

    English English

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #9

    I live under roughly the same rock as The Ripper: I've never heard

    either

    expression in the UK (pickle, butter). Neither sounds sexually suggestive to me ~ they just sound fanciful/cute/folksyWhatever tickles your pickle (7)

    Whatever tickles your pickle (8)P.S. When I hear pickle I automatically think of this stuff

    Whatever tickles your pickle (9)

    rather than these things

    Whatever tickles your pickle (10)

    which we call gherkins. So that explains that oneWhatever tickles your pickle (11)

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    You little ripper!

    Senior Member

    Australia

    Australian English

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #10

    I haven't heard the expression 'whatever melts your butter', either; it sounds a bit silly to me. Australians also call the preserved cucumber a gherkin like ewie. 'Whatever tickles your pickle' seems to be an intentional departure from 'whatever tickles your fancy' because 'pickle' rhymes with 'tickle', and I presume it can only have a sexual innuendo if directed towards a male.

    Pickle - definition of pickle by The Free Dictionary
    1. (Cookery) (often plural) vegetables, such as cauliflowers, onions, etc, preserved in vinegar, brine, etc
    2. (Cookery) any food preserved in this way
    3. (Cookery) a liquid or marinade, such as spiced vinegar, for preserving vegetables, meat, fish, etc
    4. (Cookery) chiefly US and Canadian a cucumber that has been preserved and flavoured in a pickling solution, such as brine or vinegar

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    Rodal

    Banned

    Seattle WA

    Castellano (Chile)

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #11

    Thank you everyone!

    Englishmypassion

    Banned

    Nainital

    India - Hindi

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #12

    You little ripper! said:

    I presume it can

    only

    have a sexual innuendo if directed towards a

    male

    .

    Sorry, I don't get this part. Why does it have a sexual connection in the first place Whatever tickles your pickle (14) and why only when said to men? Is all that because of "tickle"?Whatever tickles your pickle (15)

    Thanks.

    Myridon

    Senior Member

    Texas

    English - US

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #13

    Englishmypassion said:

    Sorry, I don't get this part. Why does it have a sexual connection in the first place Whatever tickles your pickle (17) and why only when said to men? Is all that because of "tickle"?Whatever tickles your pickle (18)

    No, it's the "pickle." See the second picture in post #9.

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    Edinburgher

    Senior Member

    Scotland

    German/English bilingual

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #14

    Okay, that's that one sorted out. Now can someone explain the alleged putative sexual connotation of melting butter, please?

    Myridon

    Senior Member

    Texas

    English - US

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #15

    Edinburgher said:

    Okay, that's that one sorted out. Now can someone explain the alleged putative sexual connotation of melting butter, please?

    It makes me wet.

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    Edinburgher

    Senior Member

    Scotland

    German/English bilingual

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #16

    Well I never! I suppose there is also the expression "Whatever turns you on", which is capable of having a sexual meaning ascribed to it, but is, I believe, generally used quite innocently in the sense of whatever pleases you or makes you happy.
    I would suggest a perfectly innocent interpretation of "whatever melts your butter", associated with the expression "butter wouldn't melt in his/her mouth" used of someone who is always "too" proper and well-behaved, and is in need of "lightening up" or "letting their hair down".

    Oddmania

    Senior Member

    France

    French

    • Apr 15, 2016
    • #17

    You little ripper! said:

    I've never heard the expression (I live under a rock and only come out occasionally Whatever tickles your pickle (21)) but I notice that The Urban Dictionary doesn't give it a sexual connotation (if there is a sexual connotation to be had, The Urban Dictionary will generally have it).

    Funnily enough, it gives a sexual connotation to "Whatever floats your boat" instead!

    Comes from the term "man in the boat" referring to the clitoris and the female genitalia. So, if your boat is floating, you are quite happy.

    I think I might not be kinky enough to sexualize a boat.

    NIGI

    Senior Member

    British English

    • Jan 18, 2018
    • #18

    Tickle your pickle is used widely in the UK by people under 40, it came into fashion in the late nineties, introduced into popular culture in a film, although I forget which one, might be Human Traffic.

    It does not carry a sexual connotation, you bunch of prudes. It's humourous because of the rhyme. It means "Whatever makes you happy".

    Who, in their right mind, is going to use the word pickle in a come-on?

    Srlsy.

    RM1(SS)

    Senior Member

    Connecticut

    English - US (Midwest)

    • Jan 18, 2018
    • #19

    I've never heard either version, pickle or butter (apparently I missed this thread first time round), and i wouldn't have thought of the sexual connotations if you all hadn't been talking about them.

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